My apologies in advance, this is gonna be long lol.
I am looking for a monogamous long term relationship with a soft daddy dom who particularly enjoys the caregiving aspect of ddlg relationships (and cuddles. Definitely need someone who likes cuddles 😉).
I also am only interested in a partner who is left leaning and shares the same moral values as me (pro lgbtq+, pro-blm, pro-feminism, anti-racism, anti-ice, etc).
I would like my partner and I to eventually live together full time, so if you are someone who does not want that and prefers something more casual or only seeing each other on the weekends then we may not be a good fit. That being said I’m totally fine with separate bedrooms, I def. understand the need and value in having a space that’s just yours to decompress and get alone time.
I would consider myself to be a full time “middle” and occasional “little”. I’m age regressed pretty much 24/7, and while the age I feel like can vary widely from minute to minute and based on what I’m doing or feeling, the two ages I tend to feel most like most often are 11 and 15. I definitely do feel and act much younger at times though, especially if I’m in a silly/playful mood or if I’m scared. I’m also fine with purposefully age playing a younger age for certain scenes or routines if that is something my partner wants. My interests tend to lean middle to high school age (tv shows geared towards ***s are some of my favorites, for example), but I do have some younger interests as well (like Disney movies and stuffed ***s).
I am demi-sexual. I know this term can mean a lot of different things for a lot of different people, but for me it means that I usually won’t feel any sexual attraction towards someone until I fall for their personality. This also means I am very much not the type to sleep with someone on the first date (or really at all before we are in a committed relationship) so if you are just looking for a hookup or something casual I’m probably not the right person for you. For me this also means that while I do enjoy sex, it’s not the most important thing in my life by any means. I would always pick a person who has the right personality and is kind to me but is really bad in bed (or straight up asexual) over someone who is really hot and really good in bed but doesn’t mesh well with me outside the bedroom.
I am also somewhere on the spectrum of non-binary but I kinda just like…don’t really care about that. I’m just me, who cares what gender label is used. I’m still totally fine with she/her pronouns and being called a girl and stuff like that. Less comfy with being called a woman though for some reason lol. But girl is still fine 👍 But because of this I tend to dress a bit more androgynous. I still like pink and “girly” colors, but I’m not interested in things like makeup and nails and hair and I don’t really wear dresses or skirts (I am okay wearing them inside the house if that’s something my partner really likes, but never in public).
I have autism, adhd, and some chronic illnesses that cause a lot of *** and fatigue. Due to these symptoms I am a part time wheelchair user. I am usually fine to walk around the house or to just run into a store real quick, etc, but if I’m going somewhere I will need to be standing or walking for an extended time I will need my wheelchair, so I need a partner who is comfortable with that.
My autism causes me to have some communication differences. I am very direct and tend to take things others say pretty literally. There may be times early on where we have miscommunication issues while you are still learning how I think, so I am hoping to find a partner who is patient and a good communicator.
I’m someone who thrives on routine and stability due to my autism, but who struggles to stick to routines and is very impulsive due to my adhd. Because of this I really do need someone holding me accountable and providing praise when I do the things I’m supposed to and punishment when I don’t.
I love musicals, fantasy, and video games (especially open world fantasy rpgs). I’d love to find a partner who has nerdy/geeky interests (think lord of the rings marathons or going to the ren faire). I’d really like to find a partner who would be willing to spend time engaging in my interests (like playing video games with me 👀) and who also shares their own interests with me as well.
My idea of a good night would be getting all cuddled up in bed together and watching a movie or tv show or playing a game together. I’m not really one for bars/clubs/parties. I do enjoy going out and doing things, but definitely more “family friendly” activities (things like an arcade, a carnival, an apple orchard, etc). I do struggle with fatigue and low energy at times from my chronic illnesses though, so I do quite prefer staying home most nights and just going out a few times a month.
I’m pretty inexperienced in general but especially with this sort of thing, so I will need someone who is patient and willing to help me learn.
One other thing that could be important to my future partner is my weight. I’m currently 175 lbs and 5’4”, but I’m also in the process of losing weight and (hopefully) won’t stay at that weight for long. So if you are someone who is specifically into bigger girls and ONLY bigger girls, please keep that in mind. I’m down 135 lbs so far and would like to lose another 50-65 (hopefully with my future daddy’s help and encouragement ❤️). Having lost this much weight does mean I have some loose/saggy skin, so please don’t expect me to have a really good looking body, even after I’ve finished loosing weight.
Anyway I know all this was really really long and I have a tendency to talk too much and give out too many details so I’m sorry for that, and if you still read it all anyway just know I really truly appreciate that cuz not a lot of people would take the time. (And if you did read this all and wanna make a good first impression on me, send me any green emoji in your first message 💚)
